It is very frustrating when one partner wants sex more than the other. Though there are many ‘toys’ now available for our intimate needs, we prefer a person, in particular, our special person that we are in love with. More
Most people find porn to be something dirty or otherwise offensive. A significant portion of that group of people is typically female. On the other hand, men tend to enjoy looking at and reading porn. More
Sex is one of the most amazing things that the human body is capable of experiencing. Actually, all creatures have the ability to have sex but it is the humans that tend to do it for reasons other than reproducing. Couples enjoy engaging in sexual activities for the physical and emotional pleasure it brings. It is also the ultimate declaration of romantic love for another person. More
What woman in a relationship does not want to be swept off of her feet? Actually, that may be the most recurring fantasy that any married woman has. She closes her eyes and imagines her husband doing the unthinkable; whisking her away to an exotic, romantic location or even just a delightful little bed and […] More
When looking for a BDSM relationship or hookup online, please be aware of online scammers. As with any dating scene, there are trustworthy members and then there are the bad apples you need to look out for. More
This article focuses on longer term couples. You probably remember when you and your partner first got together. If you were like most new couples, you probably couldn’t keep your hands off of each other. Sex was a top priority and nothing got in the way of having sex at any opportunity. Obviously, this type […] More
When you have a sexual agreement in place which stipulates specific days for intimacy, you need to factor in the issue of breach. Something that happens quite often with couples, particularly those that have been together for a long time, is the lack of being in the mood. This can happen for various reasons such as being ill, having had a long, hard day and being tired from it, or simply having something troubling on the brain. Most of the time, it is better to try to get in the mood unless you are clearly sick More
Whilst the following tips are mainly focused at longer term partners, many of them can still be used by new couples too. Many spouses go through sexual “dry spells” on occasion. Other couples experience an imbalance as to libidos at times. More
We have all heard the horror stories where you hook up with someone a few times and all of a sudden they think you’re dating. She starts nagging you for a commitment or he thinks it’s ok to text you every hour. Many people like to cut the crap and enjoy sex for what it is – just a purely physical release. More
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (or OCD) is a long-lasting, often permanent, chronic condition that is characterized by repetitive, unwanted behaviors that can debilitate the normal life of a person More
Therapist Nicki discusses how to have an intimate conversation with someone in 3 easy steps. More
Getting enough sleep Not getting enough sleep has been linked to significant problems such as: greater risk of depression and anxiety increased risk of heart disease and cancer impaired memory reduced immune system functioning weight gain greater likelihood of accidents. Are you getting enough rest? It has been suggested that most adults need between seven […] More
Therapist Nicki discusses how to work with emotional containment and a scale of interventions ranging from external to internal, individual to asking for help from others.
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The new school year has started, and so marks the beginning of cold and flu season. School has been in for several weeks, and almost immediately I were already sick. Here is an easy juice recipe for the common cold (wind invasion in Chinese Medicine terms). The ingredients should be fresh. The ginger should be […] More
Every therapist has written a treatment plan, Therapist Nicki gives you her thoughts on the type of goal in treatment plans. More
Therapist Nicki discusses how unhealthy triangulation is in relationships.
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Discover the inner dialogue of a play therapist.
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Therapist Nicki aka Lady Mystic Unicorn discusses the use of spirituality in session. She uses the Animal Messenger Cards as an example. Look for more spiritual videos on the Unicorn Hoodoo play list. More
